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Brittany (12-14) asks...
Whenever I think about [a] guy [I] know my nipples get hard and this white
stuff comes out [of] my vagina. What's happening -- what's the stuff? Is it a
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Brittany:
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it sort of is! What's basically happening is your body is becoming physically
aroused by your thoughts and probable fantasies about this boy you know (and
presumably like). The "white stuff" is your vagina lubricating itself in
anticipation of sexual activity, whether it be with someone else or not.
"Nipple erections" can also be a sign of arousal. The lubrication and the
nipple erections are like a boy's penis erection and pre-ejaculate*. If you're
fantasizing about sex, even if you're not sexually active, you are perfectly
normal and should not feel guilty about it. Many (or most) people act out these
fantasies as they masturbate. And that, too, is not something to feel guilty or
"dirty" about either -- it's perfectly normal.
Pre-ejaculate: Guys
urinate and ejaculate ("come") through the penis. When a guy's body anticipates
sexual activity, it prepares the penis to pass semen (the fluid carrying sperm)
by passing a fluid through it. This fluid comes from the Cowper's Gland, and
reduces the acidity in the urethra (the "pee tube") that is caused by urine
("pee"). This fluid is called pre-ejaculate because it looks like a little bit
of semen that seeps from the penis. Although this is not semen, it may still
contain a small amount of sperm. |
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Credit: J.
Geoff Malta, MA, EdM, NCC Adolescent Therapist
Puberty 101 Archives |
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